Deeper Reflection
THOSE OF US WHO HAVE HAD TO TREAT REAL WOUNDS know that it is generally not pleasant and can sometimes be difficult. You do not get a warm and fuzzy feeling. At times, the treatment is done in the face of the injured person yelling in pain. In fact, we may have to be quite clinical and precise in trying to ensure that the treatment is effective. The same applies more broadly to helping the needy.What does he or she really need? Sometimes, a quick injection of money is warranted. For example, a family where the sole breadwinner has suddenly lost his or her job may require quick financial relief to help them get through the subsequent weeks or months. At other times, kids and youths may need counselling, because they have undergone or are going through something traumatic. In some instances, the root of their trauma may have to do with parental expectations and behaviour. Sometimes, kids or youths who show bullying tendencies may be driven by a sense of insecurity. Delivering groceries to the elderly is good and can sometimes be a great way to begin longer-term engagement. But some of them may be craving interaction with other people. Some may simply be longing to be accorded some respect and dignity.In yesterday’s devotion, we focused on the need to stop for the needy. But after we stop, we need to observe. To look and to listen, both to what is said and what is unsaid, so that we can meet their real needs in real ways.